After writing a post about Jazzy, the transgendered 7-year-old, I wanted to hear how people felt about her. I decided to conduct an interview with Bullar Valcin, a fourth year biology major at Saint Peter’s College.
Q: After reading my blog and watching the video, what do you think about Jazzy?
Bullar Valcin: I am happy that his parents are letting him live how he wants to but I think it is a phase. He wants to be a girl because he sees that it is certain things that girls can do that boys should not do. He will eventually grow out of this and be a boy again. I believe the only reason he is acting this way is because his parents are supporting it. Children thrive off of attention and he is definitely getting it.
When I was a kid I wanted to be a boy. I used to sneak and dress up in my brothers’ clothes. I played with my brothers’ toys and hung only with guys until I was about 11. The minute I hit puberty all of that boy stuff flew out the window.
Q: Does Jazzy’s age matter when deciding to be another sex?
Bullar Valcin: I believe as long as you can talk, you are able to decide what you want. However, parents should know better than to give a child everything they ask for. Children are fickle and change their minds rapidly. I would accept his decision if he was older maybe in his teen years. He would have more time to figure out his identity and figure out if this is something he truly wants.
Q:Would you accept your child if he or she came to you wanting to be the opposite sex?
Bullar Valcin: Honestly, I don’t know. It is such a hard decision to make because I want my child to be normal. However, I want my child to be who he or she really is. I know it was a hard decision for Jazzy’s parents.
Q:From a scientific stand point, has Jazzy’s mental state derived from a mistake in the genes?
Bullar Valcin: I do not believe that it formed in his genes but from his environment. He is that way because of the enviroment he is living in. We need to examine his surroundings and find why he came to this mental state.
October 8, 2009
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